My ex (we were together 2.5 yrs) wants to be friends even though we have been broken up for 4 months and she is seeing someone else. She says that our friendship means a lot to her. I don't get why she would want to talk to me now that she has someone else. If I was seeing someone at the moment I would have a real hard time talking to her. It would feel weird. But I agreed to be her friend, I still like her but have to accept that I can't be with her.