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Broke Up With Gf


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as it says i broke up with her because she made a promise and didnt keep (sounds stupid) but it was a very important promise, so i felt i lost my trust and didnt no her anymore.

she is my best friend (everyone says it) but really she is so i dnt want her slagged of.

i dont know the point in this thread just guess i wanted to tell sumone and maybe they could cheer me up by telling me about rabbits in fields with flowers. lol

i dunno just need comforting. :

EDIT: i was with her almost a year paid for a £100 ring for christmas (no marridge or that) and also we had a holiday booked for next october.

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I'm sorry to hear that man. I know its harsh and you prob won't forget about her for a long time, but chin up. You're young and there is so much porn on the internet.......it's great and sooner or later you will find the right girl.

I hope things turn out for the better mate (Y)

Take care,

Neil :closedeyes:

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yeah mate that isnt good, especially when u were so prepared for xmas!

best thing i would say to do, always works when i need to take me mind off things, get out on ur bike and have a ride or watch all ur vids through and go out and nail a few lines u've wanted for ages. this should work.

dont worry though as clownbike says ur young and it wont be that long til ur out enjoying urself again.

get ur mates out, go riding and have a laugh.

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But if you were happy and broke up over something silly then just get back with her, i no uve been so strong but what did she lie about? none of my buiss. i know sorry man feel better soon

well there is her x bf who is always giving us dirty looks ( i aint bothered because if he touchs me ill go for him ) but i said just to leave it because he is to scared to start anthing so he is just annyoing us.

so i wasnt bothered and many a time told her to leave it and i made he promise several times which she did, but then the first chance she had she spoke to him knowing how much that would piss me off.

also we had being having lots of arguments and it was just getting worse but im not sure what to do.

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mate i dont know the extent of what she did but sounds like your makin a mountain out of a molehill. my gf did a similar thing in the summer, i didnt like her ex b/f textin her and asked her to stop replying, getting in contact etc. i then found out she had been carryin on and i went mad, later realising its her life, she can choose who she wants to talk to. end of the day, the more pushy and clingy i got about who she could and couldnt talk to, the more it irritated her and pushed her away. i think you should trust ur gf a bit more and give it another shot, she didnt actually do anything 'that' terrible to you on the surface. i spose its diffrent if her not talking to him really meant somethin to u. i dunno up to you man.

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mate i dont know the extent of what she did but sounds like your makin a mountain out of a molehill. my gf did a similar thing in the summer, i didnt like her ex b/f textin her and asked her to stop replying, getting in contact etc. i then found out she had been carryin on and i went mad, later realising its her life, she can choose who she wants to talk to. end of the day, the more pushy and clingy i got about who she could and couldnt talk to, the more it irritated her and pushed her away. i think you should trust ur gf a bit more and give it another shot, she didnt actually do anything 'that' terrible to you on the surface. i spose its diffrent if her not talking to him really meant somethin to u. i dunno up to you man.

(Y) you talk sense, thanks a lot for your help all of you, i think were gona sit down and chat so the free holiday is off :P.

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(Y) you talk sense, thanks a lot for your help all of you, i think were gona sit down and chat so the free holiday is off :P.

If it wasnt working now, chances are it wouldnt be working a fe wmonths down the line either.

My last g/f and I ended up parting after 2 and a half years (im only 19) about 6 months ago, to be honest it should have been over 3 months before that but we procrastinated, because we had never been in a situation like that and wanted to see how things would go.

People change, even in a year.

We ALLWAYS said we'd be good friends, even if we did break up. Since we split up, I havnt had a conversation with her..... i'm a little bitter about it but you simply have to accept the fact that sometimes things are not meant to be, and the sooner your able to do that, the sooner things will start to get better. Here I am 6 months down the line and I can now look back on it as a learning experiance, whenever the same things that happened before happen again, ill know whats in store.

It could be so much worse, at least you have a bike to take your mind off things, I sold mine to buy her a birthday present :$ Doh!

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Yeah, just give her a guilt trip, like saying "I want to be able to trust you and I do, and I now realise that you would never go back to him" or something. Then when you look at her you will be able to see if she'd rather be with you or him, but at the end of the day, she was going out with you not him.

You'll sort it dude

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