Lol Craig, God i wish someone would have helped me out when I was 14! whatever you like dont feel you have splash out too much, take her somewhere for a walk, a coffee, a small gift & or a card, if shes worthwhile she'll appreciate you making a little effort to get to know her by taking some time to listen to what she has to say, try to enjoy her company and she will enjoy yours, be a gentleman and don't forget to be friendly AFTER your mini date too - its the wonderful world of Laydeeees - Enjoy!