Dear anzo, what a lot you have to learn...im joking I love you man, that post is sheer class. Take my current situation for example, there is this girl, that likes me, called kirsty. She smokes.. so thats a no go area. Girl who smoke, taste like ashtrays. But, another girl, jess, has offered me as much sex as i want..no strings attached. She said that, she wants to use me to forget her ex. Hmm..She doesnt smoke, nice body how can a guy say no... Like anzo said, you have to think about number 1, not anyone else.