Dont try and defend yourself, take onboard what other people are saying CJSKATE, this forum can sometimes be negative, but thats only because here, unlike other places, you get a true opinion. If you don't like it you don't have to do anything, but if you want to make your site better through opinion you have to be expected to listen to others, even if you don't agree, just nod and say "yer thats a good idea i will bear that in mind" And you have really pissed off Jon, so you may want to seek inspiration from somewhere else, peoples ideas are there own and it needs to be respected, even if you don't think you have copied him, he thinks you have, and i agree with him abit there. Keep working on it, keep modifying it, learn new techniques and your site will get better and better.