Don't use tar, it's shit! If you grind it (type in 'TNN ENGINEERING' on youtube and look for a grinding video) and it still doesn't work, get better pads!
I always accept, unless I know they're a bellend. If they add me and don't talk, who cares? If they add me and talk, winner. If they add me for advice then again, winner!
Yeah I know what you're sayin'. But everyone's a different person on the internet. I tihnk Josh is different 'cause in real life he's such a faggot, but on the internet, he likes to make people think he's hard/smart/funny/anti gay.