There are so many good points in this post, here are some of my favourites.... Brilliant! I really want to go to the Euro, not for my sake, but for international businessmen, like my dad. My grandma was walking round Tk Maxx the other day and said "Ooh look at that, a nice little black family" I love her, she acted so surprised to see a black person, it was brilliant. I'm sure it's not just the Polish who do that. Exactly. So it's not okay for me to look at say... a 15 year old girl and think, ooh shes quite hot, but it's okay for my dad to look at a girl my age, or a few years younger and to find her attractive? (For the record, I'm 20) Is it a maturity thing or is it because when you turn 16 you become legally old enough to have sex or because when you're 18 you're "officially" an adult? I don't really understand.