well there is her x bf who is always giving us dirty looks ( i aint bothered because if he touchs me ill go for him ) but i said just to leave it because he is to scared to start anthing so he is just annyoing us. so i wasnt bothered and many a time told her to leave it and i made he promise several times which she did, but then the first chance she had she spoke to him knowing how much that would piss me off. also we had being having lots of arguments and it was just getting worse but im not sure what to do.