This is a joke, man up abit If it comes to it, in any situation, its going to happen so why wimp out about it or try talk your way out of it so they can go home feeling like the bigger man. Don't be a pushover all your life if someone comes upto you and trys to make you look like a twat don't put up with it because you'll not only look like a pussy but you're gonna play it over and over in your head thinking why the f**k didn't I act differently. This isn't the films, your not going to take a good punch to the face and smile because your going down or theres another one coming your way. If someone is kicking off on you and is in your face then go in with the headbutt nice and clean flush on the nose or the chin and they're going down no matter how big they are, if it's not that close then a good quick punch with your weight behind it (hook/uppercut or backhand with your stronger arm and a tight clenched fist) landed clean on the jaw and they're on the floor wondering what's hit them Which ever you go for you have to go for it and put some pasty into it otherwise forget it. Good mate of mine always said to me don't aim for their chin, aim for the back of their neck The less obvious you make it and the less you say the more effective it's going to be, keep calm and focussed, don't hesitate or flinch and make sure you get the first punch and you'll be sound. I'm not trying to act like the bigman, i've bin there and wish I had done it they way I have just said!