+1.
My girlfriend and I have been going out 6 months this Thursday. I take her to almost every gig I play at, travel hours to see her, spend a bloody fortune to see her sometimes and make loads of time spare and I never once get a 'thank you'. Also, in the past 6 months I've only gone to ONE family gathering of hers, vs. I've taken her to about 10 of mine. It's starting to piss me off too much now and I'm just gonna flip at her soon.
edit: She NEVER makes time to see me. EVER!