i don't get how bars can be to wide for a mod unless you have very thing shoulders (where wide bars would piss you off) get some ZOO!s or echos, there strong as hell and come in a fun range of colours. as for a stem you'll probably want a low rise stem(like an echo), unless you want to do bunnyhops+such where you might want a highrise stem. your best playing around with other peoples bikes before you part with cash though.