Yep, the feeling you get when something nearly ist right and gets messed up out of nothing is sh-t. Got that about 3 times this month (various reasons, not only girls, don't worry lol)
Do you actually happen to know what her other friends are saying about her drowning in self pity? I mean to know, that would [perhaps] not be a bad idea. Because, if, let's say, her best friend thinks it's a good idea to whine around (who knows? we don't really understand girls, do we? ^^), then you perhaps would have a different approach. On the other hand if her friends also think it's stupid, you could sort of work together? Hope you roughly understand what i mean.
Having problems putting my thoughts into good words and making the sentece look like it might make sence, sorry. :/
Well, by me it also isn't working as planned. Funnily enough, we only have contact once a week now. (came to that from every day..) Guess one reason is her mobile not working. but if we have contact, se seems to enjoy it. Confuses the f*ck out of me. Things like that ofcourse come at the wrong time when you actually would have enough other problems. My life's kinda screwed atm (not because of her, but haveing a gf would help.. )