The thing is though, she didn't want to meet you incase it would damage your friendship, so why if she only wanted to be friends does she feel like she can't trust you after going out with someone? According to Jessica, nothing was to become of you two (other than friends) so I feel it was selfish for her to say that when you had a girlfriend. I mean, did she not want you to have a girlfriend just because you were her friend (nothing more) and talked on msn?