I really need to grow a pair and just do this, but I can't help worrying about it all going wrong and losing everything.
As I am, I have quite a nice house and a secure job, so why do I want to move?
I don't earn enough and the local area is pretty grim. BUT, if I move and it goes wrong, I'll end up back here in a much worse situation - I realise I need to put that thought to the back of my mind and just make the jump, but it's damn scary.
When I moved out of my parents house, it was literally 5 minutes down the road into my own flat, which was scary enough - if I do this I'll be leaving all my friends, family, job and house which is a big step
Not even sure why I'm typing this to be honest, just wanted to get my thoughts out and hopefully spark some debate.