No idea where to post this but this seems the only real personal problems thread.I need some help/advice and dont want this shit all over facebook so thought this would be best:
Basically im 17, my dad is 45 and so is my mum, they've been separted for around 10 years because i never wanted them to get a divorce; i have always been an only child. They've been talking about it again in the last year and i agreed, my mum received her papers in the post on Monday. Over the last year and a half my dad has been living with his 19 year old gf who he met when she was 18 (please dont say lad ect as others who ive told have as for while i saw him as no better than a paedophile).
Today he tells me that shes 1 month pregnant. I had no idea how to react, not a word or emotion, and still dont, i couldnt even say congratulations. He asked me how i felt obviously seeing this and worrying and well i said i didnt know; he told me that he would be able to see me as much ect and that if i wanted nothing to do with it and was angry that was fine but hed rather i could be as happy as he was and treat it as if it was my own brother or sister not as a step sibling.
I have no idea what to do, i know age shouldnt matter but it does, when its my age ill be 34 its mum will be 36 and its dad will be 62! I think i disapprove but im not sure :/ i feel an urge to space myself from it but also think it would be wrong. I had always thought ti would be his only child and son and feel like i want to be separate from my family in general as i am holding together to halves/people/lives who dont want to be together and i dont want to be involved with.
Any help and/or advice wpuld be massively aprechiated.
thanks
Dave
Ps im sorry if this is the wrong thread but i needed to get this off my chest, straight in my mind and probably shead a few tears.