Aren't you worried that as soon as she touches you, you'll splooge all over her, or inside your boxers? Second time in the day sex is never as good as the first I find, unless it's quite far apart and/or you're a damn horny bastid at the time. I've gone without it for a week maybe more, is there really much point in going ages without one? It's been proven in so many tests and things that it's beneficial to have the occasional tommy tank so why do yourself harm? Does everyone find they wank much less when they've got a missus? Even before you start doing "stuff".