Jake's hardly been a silly twat though, in all honesty It's a fair point really, that if you buy something from somebody, then you expect to receive the item/s, and for them to be posted in the next day or so, unless you are previously told otherwise. If you know you're going to be busy, then tell the person If you become busy and can't tell them beforehand, at least have the common decency to let them know what's going on It's not the fact you've been busy, as the fact that it seems like you haven't made an effort to help/inform the other side of the deal about what's happening Think of it the other way round. If you sold something to a member of the forum, and needed the cash asap, then you'd expect the money to be sent that day, or the next perhaps. If the buyer decided they were 'busy' for a few days, and didn't tell you you'd be annoyed... Same shit different way round I know when I was going to buy forks from you before you faffed about and decided you weren't going to send them until a friend of mine bought your frame, just so you could send them together Would have been fine, if there hadn't been the best part of a week in between where I could have had the forks If sellers just did their best to keep people happy/informed then the recent flood of threads like these wouldn't keep on going