trialsiain Posted July 23, 2014 Report Share Posted July 23, 2014 Yes usually when a girl says she doesn't want a relationship 'at the moment', it means at all, and she's trying to let you down gently. This girl said that to me, so I said look I'm not hanging around. I said if you ever want to see me again, call me up some time and ask me out for a drink and we'll see what's happening, but by then I might be with someone else, and I walked away. The other thing I said to her was, I don't want to be 'friends'. That said I had only just met her, but yeah I knew as soon as I met her that I wanted more than that, and wasn't prepared to settle, and I'm actually glad that we're not friends and don't really talk anymore. It's a loose-end I'm better off without. And you know, I'm happy for the few fun times we had in the week we were seeing each other. Do whatever, but just don't mug yourself! There's only so much emotion you can invest, then it's time to cut your losses. a week is different than years though Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake. Posted July 23, 2014 Report Share Posted July 23, 2014 Just get out there, amongst friends and people you know and just enjoy life abit. The year I spent single I did more memorable stuff in that time then I have done in the passed 5 years. I know all relationships are a bind, you have another commitment to keep so your times spread thinner. By the sound of it you'd be chasing your tail persuing her at the minute so give her some space and time. George. Remember how close I was to Lily? I really couldn't imagine things without her at all. Looking back, I can't remember anything THAT special/memorable I did with her other than the fact everything felt special because we were close. It's been a year since I've seen/spoke to her properly in a few weeks time, and I've had the best year I could have ever wished for, I'm not encouraging you to ditch her. But I know how you feel about the depression thing because Lily, and other members of her family were depressed too. I cannot stress this enough, you're a brilliant guy and you really shouldn't let things hold you down. You've got an amazing bunch of mates. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Harrison Posted July 24, 2014 Report Share Posted July 24, 2014 a week is different than years though Agreed, but sometimes being in something for years makes it harder to leave. You feel like you've invested a lot, like it would be a waste of all that time if you left, etc. Trouble is, too many relationships can end up surviving on habit and routine. You know each other's parents, your lives have grown to fit together, and the thought of being alone or with someone new is terrifying. And so ultimately this is fear doing your bidding. I've been in a couple of 3+ year relationships that were hard to end, but ultimately it was for the best. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 24, 2014 Report Share Posted July 24, 2014 (edited) Tinder date on Saturday. Parents are away on holiday. Free house. She's coming here. Can't. f**king. Wait. She's 18 though :/ And taller. Edited July 24, 2014 by dann2707 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Harrison Posted July 24, 2014 Report Share Posted July 24, 2014 So she's never met you before and is coming to your house. This is good for obvious reasons, but at the same time if she's annoying/ten times fatter than in her photos, it'll be hard to get rid of her. I met a few girls off the web in the last month, and it was f'cking interesting to say the least. Out of four, two were disappointing in terms of appearance, character, personality, etc, and two were not. I guess it can go both ways. Also make sure she doesn't rob you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 24, 2014 Report Share Posted July 24, 2014 (edited) We've been snapchatting all week and she's lovely and skinny so it's cool Annoying is okay as it's only for one night and we've got a few activities planned so it doesn't matter toooooooooo much (roasting marshmellows by the firepit, movie, me cooking meatballs) so if she's dull as a turnip at least i'm doing things I enjoy haha I know what you mean about the disappointment though, it's a shame as you're obviously going to realise and be let down the last girl I met on it was so much better looking than her tinder pics, was a nice surprise. Shame she finished it last week with me. Having a bit of a dilemma though, Saturday there is a car meet and this girl is going who I got chatting to last night, she keeps asking me to go as i'll be someone around her age, calling me cute, gave me her number last night without me even asking haha. After loads of messaging and me being my weird self with my strange sense of humour she actually got my jokes etc so I'd realllllly like to meet her but i've got this planned now. Both girls are equally as attractive but I get on way more with this girl in terms of humour. Shall I invite them both over? Edited July 24, 2014 by dann2707 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wilf Posted July 24, 2014 Report Share Posted July 24, 2014 f**k her right in the pussy! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 24, 2014 Report Share Posted July 24, 2014 WHICH ONE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wilf Posted July 24, 2014 Report Share Posted July 24, 2014 (edited) f**k them both right in the pussy!** Edited July 24, 2014 by wilf 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 24, 2014 Report Share Posted July 24, 2014 (edited) To be fair my heart is going to the 18 year old as we've been chatting the most and she's my type. something bout those girls with arms that scream "I can't gain weight no matter how hard I try" it's just f**king hot. Edited July 24, 2014 by dann2707 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted July 24, 2014 Report Share Posted July 24, 2014 f**k her right in the pussy! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h1-iYqvBSPs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wilf Posted July 24, 2014 Report Share Posted July 24, 2014 Seen it, so so funny hahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Harrison Posted July 24, 2014 Report Share Posted July 24, 2014 Shall I invite them both over? NO! Obey flight separation guidelines at all times! I can remember only one situation where having two girls in one place worked in my favour. For the rest of the time it can become a nest of terror, particularly if you end up with one then realise you want the other one. They must not know about each others existence. I hear your pain, and this is my biggest problem with being in a relationship - suddenly all these other doors are closed. Which is why for me I need to be REALLY happy with a girl for her to become an actual girlfriend or whatever. Stick with the Tinder one I'd say, and the other one may end up being curious even more because you couldn't make it. Being a bit elusive can work sometimes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 24, 2014 Report Share Posted July 24, 2014 I was only joking about inviting them both over! That'd be so awkward haha Think i'll stick with tinder bird like you say I don't intend either of them to be my girlfriend though, I've just slipped it to the other girl that my rents are away, wish they were away for longer though booo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bing Posted July 24, 2014 Report Share Posted July 24, 2014 Oh dear daniel. It'll be like a frickin beet root when you've finished 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 24, 2014 Report Share Posted July 24, 2014 FLOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted July 25, 2014 Report Share Posted July 25, 2014 And still nobody has asked for pics? Christ, I go to Ibiza for a week and the rules just slip away from underneath me. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 25, 2014 Report Share Posted July 25, 2014 (edited) If I must Edited July 25, 2014 by dann2707 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom Booth Posted July 25, 2014 Report Share Posted July 25, 2014 Which one? I'm guessing obvious middle but.... What happened to that brunnette lass? She was hot as. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 25, 2014 Report Share Posted July 25, 2014 Yeah middle! She's stopping the night tomorrow. Hot lass is the one who told me last week she was going out with me to force herself to get over her last relationship. She was properly stunning like but when i'm thinking about it now she was a little too PC for me. Had to recycle EVERYTHING and got annoyed when I threw something in the bin etc, was a veggie etc. We had 10 dates or so and I really enjoyed myself but never mind Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Harrison Posted July 25, 2014 Report Share Posted July 25, 2014 That's a big shoulder... #justsayin 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted July 25, 2014 Report Share Posted July 25, 2014 I agree - all that bumming talk's gonna come and get you right in the arse, literally. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 25, 2014 Report Share Posted July 25, 2014 Hahaha like I said we've been snapchatting all week and seen her bod bod so it's all good Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
harmertrials Posted July 25, 2014 Report Share Posted July 25, 2014 That pic aint tickling my fancy dan, got anything showing off other potential features? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Harrison Posted July 25, 2014 Report Share Posted July 25, 2014 Good dan, I hope she's shown you full body pictures. Be wary if every picture is head and shoulders only. Also I'm impressed - you've never met and she's already committed to staying over. That said, me and a friend hijacked (well, with permission) a girl friend's phone to wind up guys via her Tinder account. I think one of them was a rugby guy in town with his team in a hotel who gave his room number etc, so he was sent a ladybody escort. Who knows if it showed up... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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