I'm the same as Joe here, I don't wish to be surrounded in such so I choose not to be. I do not drink either and have never touched any kind of illegal substance, and having seen what it's done to a close friend of mine I don't think I ever will. As such my social life probably isn't as good as my other friends but it doesn't bother me as I can focus on the more important things. Hearing that my friends got totally f**cked last night in town, ended up on a roof on a multistory and getting beaten up definitely does not appeal to me haha ( you know who you are ) I don't necessarily disagree to people doing such this as it's there choice and if they're enjoy it then good. Makes me sound very ignorant and I suppose I am upon it.
Just my two cents. )