adamtrials Posted May 3, 2009 Report Share Posted May 3, 2009 Theres a guy on her FB she hasn't even met and he's all over her on there, tbf I cant see what she writes back but from his responses I can guess. I've said that he likes her and she denies it but its blatant. No I dont want to question her or tell her that it bothers me because she will just brush it away and claim its fine but it does really bother me, she claims not to have credit but then theres messages like o sorry I didnt text back last night. It does make me slightly jealous and curious as to whats happening. Do I... Tell her how it is and how I feel and hope that if she does really like me she'll listen. Ignore it and see what happens with us and him. Or speak to him, which I really dont want to do... :\She's almost certainly taking the piss to some extent, so this calls for dirty tactics.On a number of occasions i've "nicked" their phone ("oh dear you must have left it at mine"), this way you've hit the mother lode and can usually get a very clear picture of what's going on. This is almost certainly going to be the most effective method.Alternatively you could sneak peeks at his fbook page on her account while she's in the shower or something and see what she's written/ check for dodgy messages. This works quite well, even better try and look what her password is so you can get real time updates wherever you are... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rich J Posted May 3, 2009 Report Share Posted May 3, 2009 Phone tactics been done but she deletes all her messages when shes replied to anyone cos her phone holds like 2 messages at a time but I do know she texts him cos hes always pretty close to the top of her list of texters. One of her friends knows him too, I spoke to her and she was just like yeah hes a bit flirty but its nowt to worry about. I understand he maybe a bit like that but its how susceptible she is that worries me. She cant see a bad side to anyone or any ways they are doing stuff wrong.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted May 3, 2009 Report Share Posted May 3, 2009 (edited) Poon is poon at the end of the day, right?Rich J, how long have you been with her? I'd just f**k her then chuck her mate, she doesn't sound like she's worth the effort. Edited May 3, 2009 by Fishy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Backgren Posted May 3, 2009 Report Share Posted May 3, 2009 (edited) does everyone here read their girlfriends' texts and FB messages? Edited May 3, 2009 by Backgren Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rich J Posted May 3, 2009 Report Share Posted May 3, 2009 does everyone here read their girlfriends' texts and FB messages? I dont read her messages just the wally things when she posts on mine and the text thing is something I noticed like once. Not too long Fish but not really feeling chucking if I'm honest might be the only way mind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted May 3, 2009 Report Share Posted May 3, 2009 If it's not been long and you don't trust her then what's the point? f**k then chuck is the way forward. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam-Addy A3 Posted May 3, 2009 Report Share Posted May 3, 2009 Righty, there's one girl i actually really really like, but she is like quite a 'popular' person in the school, and im not really part of that group.She is like, probably the hottest girl in the school, but thats not the reason i like her, just her personality and sense of humour etc etc.....But the thing is, im pretty sure she would never go for me, im not confident at all, im not exactly the best looking guy, so i dunno what to do, just wait for it to pass? Ask her out?Sam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted May 3, 2009 Report Share Posted May 3, 2009 Does she like you? Have you ever mentioned liking her to her? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam-Addy A3 Posted May 3, 2009 Report Share Posted May 3, 2009 (edited) We're mates, and na never mentioned it lol, I dont talk to her much during school because she hangs around with different people, and i dont have the confidence to talk to her about that sorta stuff lol Edited May 3, 2009 by Sam-Addy A3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted May 3, 2009 Report Share Posted May 3, 2009 Let it slip when drunk is a pretty good way?Tonight, i said 'yeah, because she knows i like you' to some chick i barely know, because she is alright and really sounds up for it, about some pics of her on her mates phone... Then came clean cos i was joking but yeh, it could work like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted May 3, 2009 Report Share Posted May 3, 2009 Let it slip when drunk is a pretty good way?Tonight, i said 'yeah, because she knows i like you' to some chick i barely know, because she is alright and really sounds up for it, about some pics of her on her mates phone... Then came clean cos i was joking but yeh, it could work like that.Pic with your sock. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revolver Posted May 4, 2009 Report Share Posted May 4, 2009 (edited) Righty, there's one girl i actually really really like, but she is like quite a 'popular' person in the school, and im not really part of that group.She is like, probably the hottest girl in the school, but thats not the reason i like her, just her personality and sense of humour etc etc.....But the thing is, im pretty sure she would never go for me, im not confident at all, im not exactly the best looking guy, so i dunno what to do, just wait for it to pass? Ask her out?SamTwo choices:1) Ask her out, feel like a twat when she says no2) Don't ask her out, never know what she'd say, feelings go away, who gives a shit...Well, she's not necessarily going to say no..Usually girls are quite friendly with you if they want you to ask them out. If she's just ordinary to you, don't bother.Oh yeah. If she's your friend, but you can bear for it to be weird for a while, it is worth asking her out anyway. Getting that confidence, regardless of her answer, will only do you good in the future. Edited May 4, 2009 by Bruce Lee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam Nichols Posted May 4, 2009 Report Share Posted May 4, 2009 Girls don't like me, I think they feel inferior due to my awesomeness. How can I be less awesome thus making women feel more comfortable around me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JT! Posted May 4, 2009 Report Share Posted May 4, 2009 Shit yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted May 4, 2009 Report Share Posted May 4, 2009 Two choices:1) Ask her out, feel like a twat when she says no2) Don't ask her out, never know what she'd say, feelings go away, who gives a shit...Well, she's not necessarily going to say no..Well she quite clearly is.... hes got a classic syndrome of falling for a girl you can never have syndrome and you have 2 choices, sort out your life grow some balls and some confidence and start getting the massive flirt on with her, maybe suggest going out alone after a while so you can spend sometime together alone (which is where you will do best)Or slyly take a picture up her skirt and spend all day and night masturbating over her till the crush fades. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Anscombe Posted May 5, 2009 Report Share Posted May 5, 2009 Ok so ive been a little teenie bit naughty.....the whole jelous x thing ........my current gf kinda had a bit of a go at me just before the weekend.....well she threw my bike at my head .....got all bitchy because ive just been talking to my x......when i say talking im asking her baisicly to leave me and my gf alone.....so any way my gf thinks its more and says ITS OVER....Firts thing that came to my mind was right other women are now fair game......met up with an x...told her right......you and i can get it on one last time.......just dont tell abbz .she loved that idea thinking she was getting one over on abbz .....several hours later im chuffed shes f**ked ! i do the dissapearing act..now i know if me and abb get bk 2gether i wont mention this to her......but i got a feeling x will..just to rubb it in her face witch i dont mind to be honest because im hoping that will some how teach her not to throw me away so easy ....does this sound wrong? or would you do the same kinda thingive got mixed emotions about this f**k knows why.Someone on my college course knows your sister. Apparantly shes really fit.o really.....who up in ox would know my sister hummmmmmmmmwho dude ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revolver Posted May 5, 2009 Report Share Posted May 5, 2009 Going on what I imagine others will say after me, what you need to do is tell both of them to f**k off. Your ex is interfering with your relationship, and your current lass doesn't trust you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Anscombe Posted May 5, 2009 Report Share Posted May 5, 2009 (edited) il figure somthing out.i dont blame her for not trusting .but its sooooo different with her....i really just want her to trust me ....But throwing my bike is an almost unforgiveable act.....i wont lie i actually really like abbz because not only do i love her body to bits but she has a personality to match....i could just do with out this whole...jelous/trust thing Edited May 5, 2009 by Dave Anscombe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted May 5, 2009 Report Share Posted May 5, 2009 Today is crunch time with me and the ex, i hope this goes well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Anscombe Posted May 5, 2009 Report Share Posted May 5, 2009 Today is crunch time with me and the ex, i hope this goes well.Iremember the story well.....i hope u get what your looking for ma friend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted May 5, 2009 Report Share Posted May 5, 2009 Well i wrote a f**king essay of a letter, honestly it was tear to your eye kind of stuff.and i got told no, many times. im utterly distrought(SP?)its time to move on, seeing as i dont have a choice ne more.SIMPS! when are we going out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hannah Shucksmith Posted May 5, 2009 Report Share Posted May 5, 2009 Well i wrote a f**king essay of a letter, honestly it was tear to your eye kind of stuff.and i got told no, many times. im utterly distrought(SP?)its time to move on, seeing as i dont have a choice ne more.SIMPS! when are we going out.Your ex is a fanny, most girls would killllll for a letter-writing guy. We do love that kinda stuff, after all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted May 5, 2009 Report Share Posted May 5, 2009 Your ex is a fanny, most girls would killllll for a letter-writing guy. We do love that kinda stuff, after all.Well it didnt work this time. faith in women has now been shatterd and there now objects of which are to be f**ked and oogled at.sorry hannah she ruined it for you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Anscombe Posted May 5, 2009 Report Share Posted May 5, 2009 the joker.....man im sorry to hear that me and simps will take you out SIMPS ARE YOU READYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revolver Posted May 5, 2009 Report Share Posted May 5, 2009 Your ex is a fanny, most girls would killllll for a letter-writing guy. We do love that kinda stuff, after all.Is not true...I wrote a few girls letters when I was in school.It doesn't work.Maybe it got lost in the post, and they got some other letter instead, like an advert for porn, but I fail to see how when I gave it to them myself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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