Luke Rainbird Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 As I've said before, if she's anything like a female equivalent of you then you're both insufferable human beings and should only see each other in small doses anyway. Get to the f**king, just make sure you don't make babies.Fo' SRS though, just get to it. If it doesn't work out at least you've had a go and tried at it, but 6 hours isn't a killer. Bear in mind I'm ~4 hours from Soph half the time, interspersed by 6 months or so away and shit still works for us, there's no reason that her being in Newcastle can't work. There's always the future possibility of one or other of you moving (though don't jump into it, as you well know...) but it's way, WAY too soon to even be considering that side of things yet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pashley26 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 I know it will be what it will be. It's 4 and a half hours each way and £99 return on the train, perfect I can still do all my office work whilst I'm commuting there. I finish at 4 on Saturdays now I'm a manager and I can have Monday as my day off to get back in the evening. I usually spend £100 a weekend driving the Golf, eating out and drinking beer. I'm sure it's doable. She's well up for coming down too, she's already booked flights for two weekends this month. So it's not a one way street. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ross McArthur Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 Don't you earn like 100k or something? You'd find £99 down the back of that horrible couch of yours. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 £100 a month plus a bit of food etc is nothing. Game on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pashley26 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 The money side of it wasn't really on the radar as such, just sounding a few things out. I'm sure it will all be fine. What's the worst that can happen? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 AIDS. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pashley26 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 Cat aids. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Harrison Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 Ask her to move in with you. Dump her when she says no. The end. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdamR28 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 What if she says yes? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 Go travelling. 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 What if she says yes? She'll never say yes, have you not seen that cat? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pashley26 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 Go travelling. And discover yourself* *on no less than 30 people's cocks. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 Play it to your strengths - get her really pissed, put it in her a bit then wait for her to move in? Seem to have it dialled. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Harrison Posted July 2, 2015 Report Share Posted July 2, 2015 And discover yourself* *on no less than 30 people's cocks. But it was... such a... spiritual experience... 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 2, 2015 Report Share Posted July 2, 2015 Looks like things are hitting it off with Alice from York again. I'll run the situation past people as I'm not sure how I feel. Or should feel. A year ago we met on tinder, she was great and I can't believe she asked me for drinks. She's not slutty, she's a respectable girl with morals. We hadn't even done the norty as we were waiting until we made it properly official. After seeing each other for a few months I noticed her texts were getting slower to reply and all that and eventually I said to her what's up. She said she wasn't even sure she was seeing me for the right reasons. She thinks she was seeing it as comfort from breaking up from her bf. So we called it quits that night. A year goes by and we get chatting a lot again, she's now single and split up with her bf I'm guessing around a month ago or so. Meet up the other night and she's there, absolutely off the hook stunning gorgeous. Have some drinks, start kissing. I walk her home and it feels amazing.(gayyyy) we look so good together and she goes whilst hugging me on the bench we were on "Oh Daniel this feels so normal" not as in like boring haha So yeah do you think she's seen me for who I am and is actually interested this time or using it as a comfort barrier again. I'll happily ask her tomorrow when we go on a date but I need to think k about how to do it. Its weird though as she's a vegetarian, we don't really have much in common but for some reason I've fallen for her. Head over heels easily. So yeah, not really on the tinder hype after this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted July 2, 2015 Report Share Posted July 2, 2015 Vegetarian, run in the other direction. It may not seem like much, but making two meals or having to eat vegetarian often is a sure fire shit heap. Not that I'm bitter about spending 3/4 years like that. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anzo Posted July 2, 2015 Report Share Posted July 2, 2015 Its weird though as she's a vegetarian, we don't really have much in common but for some reason I've fallen for her. Right, so unless they eat meat you're pretty much stumped? 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 2, 2015 Report Share Posted July 2, 2015 Haha you knew what I meant. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Harrison Posted July 3, 2015 Report Share Posted July 3, 2015 Just be careful because some girls are very good at 'using' a guy who is reliable and a 'safe bet' when other blokes let them down and they want to feel wanted. Now if it's working for you, that's fine - you get a bit of the old in-out in-out with a hot girl - but be careful you don't start getting emotionally invested only for her to pull the plug again. The reason I say this is because you wrote "We hadn't even done the norty as we were waiting until we made it properly official." - don't end up being the good friend who gets a bit of touchy-feely in between the guys she actually f'cks. "Oh look... maybe next time ok? Let's just hug tonight?". See if she steps up the game or tell her you want to be friends, let her realise you're not that easy. I'm not saying this is necessarily what she's doing, but I'm sure many guys here have got to a point with a girl where they realise she just messing them around, and that's the time to turn the situation round and tell her to do one. In fact it's also quite satisfying, being the guy that denies the girl, especially when there are no shortage of other available girls around and hence you're not really missing out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted July 3, 2015 Report Share Posted July 3, 2015 ^ What he said. Before I was with Sheryl, this exact thing happened to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ross McArthur Posted July 3, 2015 Report Share Posted July 3, 2015 (edited) ^^ Happens to me all the time. What do they think I am? Some sort of goddamned sexual tyrannosaurus? Edited July 3, 2015 by Ross McArthur Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 3, 2015 Report Share Posted July 3, 2015 Just be careful because some girls are very good at 'using' a guy who is reliable and a 'safe bet' when other blokes let them down and they want to feel wanted. Now if it's working for you, that's fine - you get a bit of the old in-out in-out with a hot girl - but be careful you don't start getting emotionally invested only for her to pull the plug again. The reason I say this is because you wrote "We hadn't even done the norty as we were waiting until we made it properly official." - don't end up being the good friend who gets a bit of touchy-feely in between the guys she actually f'cks. "Oh look... maybe next time ok? Let's just hug tonight?". See if she steps up the game or tell her you want to be friends, let her realise you're not that easy. I'm not saying this is necessarily what she's doing, but I'm sure many guys here have got to a point with a girl where they realise she just messing them around, and that's the time to turn the situation round and tell her to do one. In fact it's also quite satisfying, being the guy that denies the girl, especially when there are no shortage of other available girls around and hence you're not really missing out. I know what you're saying and I can honestly say she won't be with any other guy in that sense. She's not really the flirty time as she's really timid, that's why I like her as she isn't in your face loud or anything. Just petite and sweet. I'll tell her tonight that I'm not having the same thing happen as last time. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted July 3, 2015 Report Share Posted July 3, 2015 Did you ever post pics? Just curious as you keep mentioning how stunning she is... 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 3, 2015 Report Share Posted July 3, 2015 Left On the right in this one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted July 3, 2015 Report Share Posted July 3, 2015 (edited) She looks like someone you'd say "you look good for 40" in the first one. EDIT: I mean, lovely. Congrats Edited July 3, 2015 by JD™ 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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